Ramblings

The benefits of reading erotic literature

Although erotic romance novels have been around for ages, they’ve experienced a massive resurgence since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey. And let’s be honest—they’ve gone totally mainstream! I remember when I wrote my first erotic romance over 20 years ago. Back then, you could only find these books tucked away in the secret

Why do some women find romantic fiction so arousing?

Looking to add some excitement to your bedroom routine? Dive into some steamy sex stories—they just might be the spark you need to get in the mood. If you’ve ever read erotic fiction, you know how it can ignite new fantasies or simply turn up the heat. Whether you’re planning a little solo fun or

Your Brain on Erotica

While some old-school English professors might frown upon XXX-rated stories, research suggests that indulging in erotica can actually offer some real mental health perks. A study from York University in 2013 revealed that people who enjoy romantic fiction tend to have higher levels of empathy compared to those who read other genres. And whether they

How to Conquer Your Insecurity in Your Love Life

How to Conquer Your Insecurity in Your Love Life When life hands you lemons, don’t just make lemonades. Make yourself a lemonade cocktail.  Have you been feeling a little insecure in your love life? Things are going well – or not – and you can’t seem to shake the feeling off?  Whether you’re just in

How to create a great online dating profile to attract women

The first impression is your last impression. Just as this old saying goes for when meeting new people, this sentiment is also highly applicable when it comes to virtual meetups and online interactions. And whether you are on Tinder or Doublelist the first impression you make can often make or break a potential connection or

The most popular dating apps of 2020

Top 7 apps for meeting new people! If you’ve ever been new to a city, then you’re aware of how daunting it can often be to make new friends or meet people. Combine that with the cultural differences; you’re definitely in for a challenge. It can be hard to break into social circles and start

A Woman’s guide to flirting

A woman’s guide to flirting Not every woman has the ability to flirt. If you’ve attempted it and you ended up being asked if there’s something in your eye, you’re in good company. A lot fewer women than you think know how to flirt with a man, and whether you are using adult search or

How to meet online safely in 2020

Your palms are sweaty, knees weak. You feel that you have eagles in your stomach. You’re a nervous wreck, only because you’re meeting someone for the first time. Talking to them online was fun, but now you want to take things to the next level. As if meeting someone you liked from a chatroom is

Enjoying online relationships

There are plenty of success stories when it comes to online dating. There are people who’ve met their significant others online and talk about a happily ever after. How can a skeptical version of yourself come to accept that you too can share the same fate? Here are a couple of tips proven to make